Wednesday, January 4, 2017

I don’t like it when 'the holidays' end

As soon as Halloween is over, I start thinking about Christmas. Oh, I know, we have to have Thanksgiving first, but I’m not a big fan of holidays created solely to make people eat. I want Thanksgiving to come, go and get out of the way so we can get on with the good stuff.

First warm day in November, I’m out stringing lights on the bushes, the trees, the light pole, the sidewalk and along the top of the garage. This year I used color LED lights, linked everything together and turned it all on five days BEFORE Thanksgiving. (I think my neighbors were waiting for someone to go first, because a couple of days later there were lights up everywhere.)

Now I don’t want to lapse into a basket of cliche here but Christmas really is a special time that brings a little bit of magic along with it, and I love everything about it.

I love the lights on the houses and the way you can see Christmas trees through the front windows. It makes the neighborhood look festive and beautiful and I imagine that the people inside are happy, as if they have set aside their problems for a while.

I love the music you start to hear on the radio as Christmas starts to get close. I also have a special “mix” disc of Christmas songs I play every year.

I love the Christmas movies, although I admit I can only watch some of them every third or fourth year, but EVERY year on Christmas Eve I turn off all of the lights except the Christmas tree and watch “A Christmas Carol” – the one starring George C. Scott as Scrooge. Some of the ghostly scenes just don’t seem right with a bunch of lights on in the room.

I love giving gifts and the time we spend with family. It seems like we should do that more often, but people have busy lives.

And I love that people I don’t know and might otherwise not like are going around saying “Merry Christmas” to everybody and I’m saying it right back.

One disclaimer: I used to like Christmas a whole lot more when we had a vibrant downtown Fairmont with all kinds of stores and you did your Christmas shopping walking from one to another, bundled up in hats and coats and maybe even sloshing through the snow. I don’t care how many glitzy displays they put up or how much Christmas music they play, malls are poor substitutes for a downtown shopping area where you had to dress for the occasion. I won’t go near one during the holidays. I shop online.

It’s called “the holidays” (plural) because after Christmas we have to celebrate New Year’s Eve and New Year’s Day, which don’t excite me as much as when I was younger except for all of the football games and the Twilight Zone marathon.

Then finally, it’s all over for another year. I know this because day before yesterday, it was fairly warm outside so I took down all of the lights and most of the decorations from inside the house. Putting them away, I got a little melancholy as I always do this time of year until I thought about my birthday coming up at the end of January, and I had an epiphany:

This year, I’m leaving the Christmas tree up indefinitely.

My wife and I like looking at it, we don’t get a lot of company and it casts a nice reddish glow in the living room at night. Besides, you can’t see ours from outside unless you walk up in the yard, so nobody’s going to know.

If anyone does see it, I’m telling them it’s a “Birthday Tree.” I mean, why not? Before long, one of our neighbors will be putting up red lights for Valentine’s Day and then green ones for St. Patrick’s Day, and people all over town will be hanging Easter eggs from their dogwood trees…

So we’re going to dance and sing and drink egg nog by the light of the Birthday Tree. Maybe we’ll even start a new trend. At the very least, we’ll extend “the holidays” a little longer, and that’s OK by me.

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